Today at church the pastor spoke about the difference between being happy and having joy. The definition he gave of happiness is it is something that is fleeting whereas joy is a constant. Happiness is payment whereas joy is the dividend. I feel that the joy in my life was extinguished on April 18, 2012.… Continue reading Happy vs Joy

If last week had a theme it was music. It started with a good friend sending me a video of Simon and Garfunkel’s “Like A Bridge Over Troubled Water” because when she heard it she thought of me. After playing it multiple times I made sure to tell her that during this grieving process she… Continue reading Music